You might have tried so many things already, that you're wondering: Is it even possible to feel that free? The answer is yes, and I have proof.  

My client Ken had a problem with feeling inferior. He had gone to Tony Robbins trainings, did hypnosis training, went through counseling, and yet nothing truly changed in his life. In fact, it made him feel worse, because he felt as if he was the problem. He wondered what was wrong with him that he couldn't change. A few weeks after we started working together he said: "Femke, I sometimes have to pinch myself. It feels like I am on drugs, I'm on such a high. For the first time since I was about 11 years old, I feel good about myself and I just don't worry about what other people think." It means that he could finally transition out of his job as a personal trainer and into starting his own business. 

My client Sietske turned in her job as a farrier. She built the inner power and transformational skills to show up for small business owners and help them break free from their fears. What I love most about it, is that her personality shines through in all that she does. There's no holding back. Not too long ago, she was scared of doing practice sessions and now she is making a huge impact in other people's lives!

When Chris came to me, one of the first things he said is that he is his own biggest enemy. He was great at making things happen for others, but when it came to his own dreams he'd self sabotage before even getting started. He had a lot of creative and innovative ideas, but whenever he set out to implement his dreams he would feel lethargic and a sense of apathy would wash over him. He'd sit at home all weekend long, watching tv, not doing his workouts that he would otherwise do and he'd feel tired and unmotivated.

Over the years he had tried many different ways of getting rid of this pattern. He worked with some of the biggest names out there, had attended many trainings, studied NLP and hypnosis. But somehow nothing worked. The problem? No-one had taught him to truly be in charge of his own brain.

When we started working together, we quickly discovered that he had accepted his dad's statement to be true: "You will never amount to anything, you're a failure". The way he had responded as a kid: If that's true, then at least I'll screw up on my own terms. As a 5-year-old, it gave him a sense of control. A sense of power. Over time, as he grew up, it crippled him.

Any time he got somewhat successful, he would find a way to screw it up for himself. As we worked on him taking charge of his own brain, and realizing he had a CHOICE as to directing his brain what to believe and to take action on, he was no longer a victim of his neurology.

Now we were in a position to do some actual change work. After about 2 months, he sent me an email stating he had signed a $15K contract for a business idea he had walked around with for several years.

Imagine what it would be like for you to break free from the blockages and build a deeper connection to your truth and purpose? What difference would that make in how you communicate your value to others? How much easier will it be to make decisions from a place of clarity and trust? 

You can have that. And it is much easier than you'd think. 

But there are a few shifts you need to make first. Once you make these shifts, you'll find that you ca

You may be stuck in procrastination and feel absolutely frustrated that you seem powerless to do something about it. It feels so lazy. But the truth is, you ARE powerless. 

That's because your brain prioritizes threat. And it cannot  distinguish between real threat or a threat that comes from distorted thinking. Your body chemistry will send distress signals to your brain and as a result, your brain goes into survival mode. That's why you end up binge watching tv the moment you sit down to write a blog or start feeling overwhelm . 

It's simple: these are just protection mechanisms.

Procrastination is just one of them. Gaining weight, becoming a learning junkie, excusing yourself, blaming, playing the victim. All of these are great ways to hide and protect yourself. 

If you really want to break free from these protection mechanisms and liberate yourself, you need to know exactly which distortions are holding you back AND how to solve them quickly and effectively. It takes more than "feeling the fear and doing it anyway". Feeling safe is an inside job.

Once you feel safe, taking action becomes SO MUCH EASIER. You'll get curious about feedback and how to use it to continue in the direction of your dreams. And this just accelerates your journey.

It is much easier to listen to your inner guidance system, because you no longer get flooded with angst and inner dialogue.

And you can RELAX, which means you'll be saving your energy for the better things in life. 

Once you feel safe, the next step is building TRUST. 

Trust in being part of something bigger. Trust in yourself.  And Trust in others. That's what shift #2 is for. 

Pronoia, from ancient Greek, means foresight or providence. It's used as the opposite of paranoia (worst case scenario thinking, doubting that you'll get what you want, believing others won't listen to you or that others will get what you want). 

Isn't it funny that human beings are far better at feeling certain that they won't get what they want, than feeling certain that they WILL get what they want? I see this all the time. It leads to what if-fing, playing it small, and settling. 

WHAT IF (pun intended) you felt certain about the vision you have for your life? What if you felt that the Universe was conspiring to shower you with blessings? What difference would that make in how you show up? 

This kind of optimism leads to a lightness of being and a greater eagerness to take action. It leads to more resilience when you hit a bump in the road. SAFETY and TRUST are critical components to connect with your soul's purpose and start living as an EXPRESSION of it.

Scarcity and fear of lack play really well with feeling unsafe and uncertain (shift 1 and 2). In fact, most often they play together rather than alone. 

We tend to focus of what we don't want and what we want to move away from, and use our current reality as proof of what's real and what's possible. We use our current reality to predict our future. And as such, you end up creating more of what you don't want. More of lack. 

As with the first two shifts, SCARCITY is merely a state of mind. A very persistent one, however, and one that stops you from seeing and seizing opportunities. In fact, when you live in a state of scarcity, you wouldn't even see opportunity if it stared you right in the face. Why?

Because you are telling your brain to DELETE it. 

Scarcity has you obsess over what you want, from a place of not having it. And the more you do that, the more you experience the NOT HAVING part of it. It's hard to create a different reality that way, wouldn't you agree? 

So we want to turn that into an attitude of abundance. 

This is where the law of attraction and visualization comes in. In fact, you might have already tried some of the things they tell you to do in order to create and attract abundance. What is often missing from this, though, is how to practically implement it. You CANNOT do this from a place of fear. In fact, when you do visualizations from this place, your old patterns get triggered and they become more defiant. So it feels like you're fighting a losing battle. 

While that is easy to UNDERSTAND...it's not so easy to FEEL. You're not going to get this from reading a book or trying a few visualizations. The reason for this is that most visualizations don't take SAFETY and TRUST into account. Nor how to access the required mind-body-emotion states. 

When you do research on creating abundance, you'll find that GRATITUDE plays a big role.

As is acting and feeling as if what you want is already a reality (remember from shift #1 that your brain can't tell the difference between reality and imagination?). Essentially, you can already feel how you want to feel without physically having what you want. 

How do you access these states, and move beyond your current reality? What is the pathway to that in the face of contraction. 

Rather than having to figure that out on your own, you need a step-by-step process to feel that with every fiber of your being no matter what happens in your life. That goes beyond mindfulness, affirmations, meditation, and visualization. These are fantastic tools, but only if you use them in a way that supports YOU rather than trying to fight against your current reality. 

To summarize it shortly: You can't create a state of abundance and gratitude if you do the change work from a place of lack. You need to deal with the lack or scarcity first. 

Do you have a hard time even connecting with your soul's purpose? You see others feel completely passionate and alive in what they do, and whilst you know you want to make a difference in other people's lives, you have no idea what that looks and feels like. 

OR You might know exactly what that is, but you feel disconnected from it. You KNOW it, but you have a hard time FEELING it and living from it.

Feeling a sense of safety and trust clears the path to deeply connecting with your soul's purpose. It allows you to better envision the life you want for yourself. The kinds of relationships you desire, the way you want to feel in your business, and how you want to show up for yourself in your life. 

When you feel safe, and have trust and certainty that whatever you dream, can transpire without attachment to how or when, feeling the abundance of the Universe, and you have an absolute knowing of what your purpose is ...then you can make a FULLY ALIGNED DECISION to go ALL IN. 

And that's where you find a natural readiness and eagerness to act (ALACRITY). No need to force anything. You'll feel drawn to taking action. And from that place you'll be far more effective and it'll be easier to attract what you want to yourself. 

In a world where the focus is on PERFORMANCE a lot, I just want to tell you that there needs to be a balance between BEING and DOING. Without this connection to your beingness, any performance will over time feel meaningless. It just leads to burnout. 

At this point, though, you have learnt to step into your being and feeling part of a greater whole that we are all connected to. It doesn't matter so much what you call it. For some it's GOD. For others it's the Universe. Source energy. Collective wisdom. We are not alone, we are connected. And when we can live in that connection and feel our place in that, PERFORMANCE has PURPOSE. 

 So now, when taking action from a place of alacrity, you can more easily access focus and flow.

Flow is a place where time and space drops away and you are so engaged in an activity that you don't have to even think about it. You are so aligned with what you do, that your words and your actions flow from you with ease. You're performing at your best.

This, too, doesn't have to be an accidental process. You can learn to deliberately step into this flow and feel energized in what you do. Imagine what that would do for your coaching sessions, sales conversations, writing blogs or doing whatever activity you are drawn to do? 

Now imagine what it would be like to be able to do this whenever you take action towards living your purpose and your dream outcome. How much faster would you get there? How much more fun would it be? How energized will you feel? 

Because starting March 5th you have the opportunity to clear your any blockages and stress-inducing patterns in your life. You can learn to deeply connect with your truth and purpose, and build sense of trust and certainty so you can move into inspired action. You'll learn how to let go of struggle and procrastination and move into ease, abundance and and eagerness to create. At the same time you'll be wide open and free to grab hold of opportunities and possibilities that you would otherwise have dismissed or even missed. 

Once you're able to do that, you'll not only show up differently in life...life is going to show up differently for you as well. 

This is a transformational program for you personally to set you free and propel you into the life of your dreams. 

At the same time this teaches you the exact processes that you can take your clients through for THEIR transformation. These processes will cover 95% of the change work you'll ever need to do with your clients that guides them through deeps shifts and you'll learn how to help them solidify these shifts in their lives. This program is part of the Quantum Leap Coach Certification Training. 

It's not only going to transform how you show up in the world and build freedom, it also transformed your coaching sessions and the results you'll get with your clients.

This training focuses on EXPERIENCE. You need to feel everything that you are learning, otherwise you won't get the transformation. However, you need some information and explanation of all the different concepts and processes that allow you to go through this, and this will be delivered through online video training. You will have a life-time access to it, so you can repeat it as many times as you'd like and really get the most out of the training.

You'll also have access to a private Facebook group, because it is in connection with others that we solidify our transformation. This group will be your support system. A place where you can ask questions, share your wins and successes and start valuable friendships with others who are on the same wavelength and are in your corner. 

The live training sessions are there for you to deeply experience the shifts that I've mentioned above. You will be guided through each of these shifts and you will learn how to take others through these shifts as well. You will get access to the recordings after the calls, so you can listen back to it. Any questions you have when watching after the live training can be directed to the Facebook group, so others can learn from it as well.

To solidify change, you will have access to guided visualizations that take you through all of these shifts. At first, you'll go through them in order, but afterwards you'll be able to do the visualizations depending on where you need the support. These will be available for you to download, so you can listen to them offline. This also includes the scripts to use for your clients. 

This is a BETA-version of the Living Your Best Self Program. This means that you will get a SPECIAL PRICE. It will never again be this low.  After that it's going to go up to $4500+ 

Your FAST ACTION discounted price is US$1500. This will be available until Sunday February 24th at 11.59pm PT.  After that the price will be $2500 until we start in March. 

This is a BETA-version of the Living Your Best Self Program. This means that you will get a SPECIAL PRICE. It will never again be this low.  After that it's going to go up to $4500+ 

Your FAST ACTION discounted price is US$1500. This will be available until Sunday February 24th at 11.59pm PT.  After that the price will be $2500 until we start in March.